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PLEASE EMAIL YOUR 'ROUND THE TABLE SUBMISSIONS (200 WORDS OR LESS) TO DARREN@ ABMP.COM OR VISIT THE MASSAGE & BODYWORK GROUP ON MASSAGEPROFESSIONALS.COM. My most rewarding massage was given during my internship at the Ronald McDonald House in Louisville, Kentucky. One of my clients was a 16-year-old boy who had been injured in a football accident and was paralyzed from the waist down. In the short amount of time I had with him, he was always positive, outgoing, and truly inspiring. He never doubted that he would learn to drive or play football again and experience all the world had to offer. By the time I left the Ronald McDonald House, the young boy was learning to walk again. I'll never forget the smile on his face and the excitement he had when he showed me how he could use the walker. Those massages I was able to give him were very special to me and hold no comparison to any other massage I've ever given. It made my love for my career that much stronger. CASEY SCHERZINGER JEFFERSONVILLE, INDIANA The client was in her 80s, living in a rest home for the previous three years. Her daughter said she had been unresponsive for days. She had suffered a stroke two years earlier and her right arm was paralyzed and held tightly to her chest, with her hand knotted up in a ball. Her vacant eyes said she was not present. I simply held the back of her neck, set my intention for her highest good, and waited for some acknowledgement and recognition. It came after a few minutes with a big breath and she relaxed her right arm as she smiled back at me with her eyes. Then as she sat in her wheelchair, I massaged her back for 20 minutes. I used the technique and the gift of love to connect us, and the rest just flowed. LINDA GRACE LUNDY MONTEREY, CALIFORNIA I was contracted to do massage therapy in the home for a client who was in the advanced stages of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS). She was extremely present in her environment and all that went on within that space. However, she could not speak. After several sessions of trusting I was bringing some comfort to her, I said to her, "I hope that I am bringing you a little bit of comfort." She looked at me and with great effort said, "Yes!" It was the last word she spoke before she died a couple of weeks later. How great is that? MARY JUSTICE PHELPS, WISCONSIN There are two "best massages" that I have given in my career: 1.) My heart is wide open, my hands move slowly and surely, giving warmth and flow. I'm giving my instructor a massage for the final exam. Afterward, she says I've given her the best massage she's ever received, and that I know how to make time stand still. 2.) I'm grieving. A beloved has died. The pain comes in deep waves. My hands move slowly and carefully, and I re-ground every few minutes, staying exquisitely present, flowing the heartache down through my feet and breathing lightly. I hope my client doesn't feel what I am feeling. Afterward, she exclaims what an amazing massage that was. "You give so much of yourself!" She tipped me $20. Whenever the heart is opened, by love or by pain, the quality of touch and presence can be extraordinary. PAMELA MORGAN SILVER CITY, NEW MEXICO The best massage I ever gave would be one of the last ones I gave to a client I'd been seeing every week for three years, and less regularly for some years before that, just before she moved out of the state. The last few treatments I gave her, I knew her body very well indeed, and was able to help her deal with difficult issues in her life (including the situations, both personal and professional, that led to her moving away). It was difficult to remember that she was there to see me as her massage therapist, not as a counselor or a friend (though she certainly was my friend by then), and I think I learned a good deal about professionalism by keeping myself within my scope of practice. I was very gratified that she gave both me and her psychotherapist a credit in her master's thesis "for keeping me together in (respectively) body and mind." JOHN M. BURT CORVALLIS, OREGON Five years ago, when I was in massage therapy school, I was able to give the gift of massage to my father. He was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer and was dying. All of his life he gave to so many people. This was my gift to him to help him with the pain he experienced, the stress he was holding onto with knowing he had limited time left, and to just let him know I loved him. With each stroke of my hand, I could feel the energy between father and daughter, client and therapist. I was the first and last massage therapist to give him a massage. It helped me to connect the mind, body, and soul of my father. DENISE SAMPLE SOUTH ELGIN, ILLINOIS Upcoming Topics An elevator speech is a short promotional description of what you do. Let's hear your 30-second elevator speech to a potential client. 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